Tips on dating a younger man

Cougars are all the rage for men in their twenties through forties (although the latter are kidding themselves—they’re no young cubs).

But just what is it about women in the 40 plus group that is such a turn on?

You want to feel empowered in the dating game, so ask yourself if you feel good when you’re with the young buck and genuinely excited to spend more time with them.

Dating someone younger can be rejuvenating and ignite an exciting spark that’s been bogged down by past drama. Be open and flexible (literally and emotionally) to new experiences: Think cramming into a tiny music venue one night and exploring a new pocket of the city the next.

That said, it’s okay if the younger person, understandably, has room to grow (don’t we all), but says to also avoid creating an uneven power dynamic, where you’re the one always calling the shots.), it’s not a bad idea to chat about where you’re both at in life and how you’ll fit into each other’s.Ask them where they see themselves in the next two years—versus the five or 10 you might ask an older prospect.At the end of the day, who you choose to date—and why—is So if you’re eyeing a guy or gal who graduated college years after you, here’s what to know before going on that first (or second! ) date: First order of business: What do you want from this relationship?If you just want to date around, hook up and have fun, that’s great.

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