Movie about brother and sister dating
I’m worried that if we see much of his sister, I may be at risk of developing an eating disorder myself (I’ve had some borderline problems in the past). You can only hope that in expressing your discomfort, he will say something to put you at ease and change his behavior during future visits with her.
I suppose you can also take some comfort in knowing she lives far enough away that in the six months you’ve been with her brother, you’ve only met her once.
A few weeks ago, I got to meet his sister, who is two years younger than us and the person he’s closest to in his family. Not only did they hug each other tightly for almost a full five minutes when we met her at the airport, but he constantly had his arm around her or was holding her hand (and sometimes mine, simultaneously).
The “pet name” that he calls me turned out to be a variation on his nickname for her.
Being weirded out is one thing (and a MAJOR red flag at that); screwing with your emotional and physical health is something else entirely, and not something I would risk doing for a six month relationship with a guy who has, at best, an uncomfortably close relationship with his sister.
Finally, if your self-image is so fragile that you would so easily be tempted to quit eating, you could probably use a visit to a therapist.
Conversely, I became best friends with the sister of a girl I used to date.a couple months in I broke up with her because I didn't see things going further, at this point, since she lived next door to her family, I had met her sister... She took the break up well and things were amicable until she started dating a conservative white dude that really talked down in the fact that we would all hang out.
If my sister were available, I wouldn't, in theory, have a problem with her being involved with a best friend of mine.He even called her by my nickname and me by hers several times.He honestly looked distraught when he had to choose which one of us to sit next to. On top of this, his sister exhibits signs of anorexia that my boyfriend refuses to notice.He may have been trying to compliment me, since I myself am fairly thin, but I can’t help but feel like his sister has something to do with it.Do you think I am just being paranoid and jealous about the way he treats and looks at his sister, or do you think there’s something strange like I do? It’s not like you can demand he stop pawing at his sister like she’s the first woman he’s ever seen.