Dating hamster wheel

In the past few months, I find myself drawing more towards my friends who are interested in living a progressive life and leaving behind those friends who simply refuse to acknowledge their issues and get the help they need.

Please get off the Dating Hamster Wheel of Despair (DHWD)* and free yourself to enjoy that wonderful life without the man-man-mandate. This is the greatest challenge we all face, reconciling ourselves to the absences or disappointments that aren’t entirely in our control.If you are a Hamster Wheel Friend™ (no need to stand up), please know that it’s impossible for you to be the best friend that you can be until you deal with your stuff.You may have noticed that you have a hard time maintaining relationships, be they platonic or romantic.It’s because you’re hung-up and very few people have the training or patience to endure. Your friends are sounding boards, not dumping grounds.Part of friendship, in my estimation, is to be a place of rejuvenation. Unless you like friend-hopping or being alone, it’s time to stop being an energy vampire. Follow Christelyn on Instagram and Twitter, and subscribe to our You Tube channel.

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